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Over the last year and a half, my blogging dilemmas have been many. I have, I’m afraid, been able to reduce these dilemmas into neat little binaries quite without satisfactory answers.

Long or short? A few quality posts or many chatty postsShould you write about everything? Is developing a brand necessary? Is less more or is less just  less in the blogosphere?

The question is, should I gear the blog towards any one side of these pairs of concerns?  Or should I not pick and keep speaking in many tones deep and shallow, sombre and chatty, touch-and-go and scholarly, short and long?

The posts on writing, especially the short ones, attract the largest number of hits. The longer, in-depth ones about blogging or writing still attract a greater number of readers than creative posts. 

The reflective, memoir-like posts, such as the one here, are the ones that take a greater effort to write and are more personal to me. These inevitably attract fewer hits but more loyal followers who come back even after long intervals.

Of course, I can keep writing what I want for myself. Then I won’t have to worry about revealing too much about my personal life or grammar or format .

But that will mean an audience of only one. Only me.  I am the most boring person I know. Completely predictable. So I won’t be much help as audience.

At the heart of my question though, whether to focus on any one core interest, creative memoir or writing,  is another question which is of interest to everyone.

Must a blog follow a magazine model if it isn’t just personal but covers a variety of topics? In the publishing world as it exists now, you’ll find women’s magazines, technology magazines, fashion magazines, scholarly journals, science magazines, popular science magazines. . . Rarely will editors and publishers mix one kind of presentation with the other.

If a blog is a personal one, should it just concern itself with one group of topics speaking in a style and tone that remains constant?

I am increasingly inclined to think that people may not have to make a choice anymore. Reading habits online aren’t  going to replicate the way people used to read magazines or journals or personal stories offline. In fact, stagnation might become a real possibility if one is not willing to be flexible online both as readers and writers.

“An artist is someone who can hold two opposing viewpoints and still remain fully functional” said F. Scott Fitzgerald.

I think a blogger has to embrace multiplicity even more than an artist.

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I was told yesterday that this post will be Freshly Pressed. Thank you WordPress. If you’re interested, check out my other posts that were Freshly Pressed: My Blog Audience, Sounds of the Blogosphere and Characters from the Inside of your Head.

185 responses to “Do bloggers have choices?”

  1. silentdugood Avatar

    I love reading blogs, it is my way of feeling like I am in World Societies Class.

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  2. lawmrh Avatar
    lawmrh

    Ah, the age-old debate between art and commercialism. “To thine own self be true” — or not!

    The public always has choices. This explains the diversity of options available not only among traditional publications and blogs — but in film, food, music, sports, video gaming, art and general avocation.

    At the heart of art, especially writing, is ultimately self-expression. Readers will either join us — or not and no matter if it is one or one hundred. After all, there’s always TL/DR, too.

    Admittedly anymore, popular novelists, for example, will use formulas to promote not necessarily assure their commercial success, e.g., shorter chapters that can be read bite-size before bedtime and focus groups to test alternate endings for popularity.

    But most blogs aren’t driven by such bottom-line commercial concerns! So why worry? As for myself, methinks Polonius had it right.

    – Mo

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    1. bottledworder Avatar

      Great comment. Write as it comes!

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  3. lenigmedargan Avatar

    Blogging is like educating yourself…more you know about the stuffs, more you will post and more likely your blog will capture a good visitor database. 🙂

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  4. Nanny Cool Avatar

    Well done for getting freshly pressed 3 times, you are obviously doing something right. x

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  5. grandscribe Avatar

    Nice post! We bloggers definitely have a lot to think about…

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  6. Kevin Idehen Avatar

    I can relate to this, as a fellow blogger….I say, be your unique self, always.

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  7. Virginia Nygard Avatar

    HI! Thanks for the visit. J.D. Salinger secreted himself away in New Hampshire because all he wanted to do was write. He hated publishing and all it required…especially the time it sucked away from his writing. Of course, he had NTY Bestseller creds…and I don’t. Yet. So, I’ll continue to write mostly on what interests me about, or can be a little parable about writing. Write on!

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  8. callmeamyifyouwant Avatar

    Reblogged this on Amy Does Fashion and commented:
    AMEN

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  9. Red Avatar
    Red

    Reblogged this on redbeads.

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  10. maatiigume Avatar

    Reblogged this on maatiigume and commented:
    Choices are mine

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  11. astra Avatar

    I write without a plan. I hate dealing with all these dilemmas about blogging. Whenever I read tips on blogging, my feeling of inadequacy keeps escalating. So I just do what I do and I love it.

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  12. unchartedframeofmind Avatar
    unchartedframeofmind

    Reblogged this on unchartedframeofmind.

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  13. Shaahid EssWhyDee Avatar

    Congrats on being Freshly Pressed!

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  14. jillwilsonbrennan Avatar
    jillwilsonbrennan

    Thanks, bottledworder, I’m with you on this.

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  15. jillwilsonbrennan Avatar
    jillwilsonbrennan

    I appreciate your voicing that dilemma but you have to comment as you want to, ie writing for yourself, to use the blog most successfully. Thanks, bottledworder, I’ll check in again.

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  16. dlovski Avatar

    This blog was very helpful! I’m new to blogging so this was a great read for me. Thanks:)

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  17. Get it Avatar

    Reblogged this on why do we do what we do and commented:
    I think blogging is a part of life similar to a journal.

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  18. broadsideblog Avatar

    I think it helps to decide what the goal of your blog is. I think some bloggers expect a lot (too much) — a book deal! Thousands of readers. right way! The strongest attraction, for me, is the blogger’s voice. If someone is smart, funny and insightful, I want to listen to them on many topics.

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    1. bottledworder Avatar

      That sounds like good advice.

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  19. victoriacsgossip Avatar
    victoriacsgossip

    I have to say that as a writer you capture the thought along with the message you are trying to convey.

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  20. blkjk96 Avatar
    blkjk96

    I liked this one, but I liked how you read unknown bloggers better!

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  21. jscott11894 Avatar
    jscott11894

    Great post. I believe bloggers do have choices but a limited one at that. They reveal different characteristics of the blogger personally, but they all umbrella under the same subject matter at some point.

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  22. jjspina Avatar

    Thank you stopping by my blog. Interesting post and blog. Best wishes.

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  23. hodgepodge4thesoul Avatar
    hodgepodge4thesoul

    ” “An artist is someone who can hold two opposing viewpoints and still remain fully functional” said F. Scott Fitzgerald.

    I think a blogger has to embrace multiplicity even more than an artist.” — Indeed! Great read…

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  24. lulubellaloveslife Avatar

    Reblogged this on lulubellaloveslife and commented:
    This Will Keep Me Busy For A Good Number Of Years. #Inspired

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  25. Roland Hurt Avatar

    I write about all sorts from Technology to anything in News or Politics on my Blog. I don’t mind if a particular post gets a lot of views, I’m more interested in what views I get overall during the day throughout the weeks, months & years.

    I think I mainly write for me but like the idea of having something that will exist long after I’m gone.

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  26. A-is for Anima Avatar
    A-is for Anima

    Love it

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  27. inspoetry Avatar

    Poetry sets me in motion,
    What words cannot say,
    The mood is set to go,
    Let life guide you choices,
    Blog on one message at a time.

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  28. Dil Se Avatar

    I have been an active blog writer (I think so) for past 1 year now. My thought is do not think too much, write on a topic which comes out instantly an put your entire heart (not head) into it.

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  29. Lorraine Avatar
    Lorraine

    You’re still in panic mode! Calm down and read THE VOICE OF KNOWLEDGE by Don Miguel Ruiz!

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  30. Lorraine Avatar
    Lorraine

    Maybe you are over analyzing your writing style. STOP before it;s too late and just keep writing!

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  31. awax1217 Avatar

    I have now blogged for half a year. I do poems, skits and short stories. I write what comes into my head. Some like my stuff and others do not, but the real crux of the matter is I like it. Therefore, I write it for me, maybe not the greatest reason but one my ego supports.

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  32. ChristEnabled Avatar

    You make a great point, and it is one I’ve been wrestling with myself while my blog is still in its infancy.

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  33. ashokbhatia Avatar

    Reblogged this on ashokbhatia and commented:
    For those who take the hobby of blogging rather seriously.

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  34. Nikki Gillette Avatar

    I used to worry about a lot of those dilemmas. Is my post long enough, too long? Should I really write about this? Should I keep my blog in focused? Then I said to myself “Self, this is YOU! Just write what you want, that is what people want.”

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  35. tachyonemc2 Avatar
    tachyonemc2

    Reblogged this on TachyonEmc2.

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  37. hoarderswife Avatar

    Ugh… I hate when my posts get deleted in the middle of writing them. Does anyone else have this issue, or an I uniquely tech challenged?
    I will try to remember everything I said and rewrite it 😉
    I am not, nor have I ever been a writer, but I started a blog for the first time a few days back to get me through some major life changes. I’m not quite sure I’ve got the hang of tags, categories, and themes yet, and I’m almost certainly doing everything wrong. But! Full steam ahead, there’s no better way of learning than doing!
    Almost immediately, I was told to focus and asked what my ‘direction’ was (by my mother, the audience of one). Sticking to one topic has felt very stifling and inauthentic, so I’m glad to have stumbled upon this post. I think you may have given me the confidence to write about everything and anything, even (or especially) if it has nothing to do with my main theme.
    I know that you have a very large following so you probably don’t have the time to take a look at many blogs from your readers. I’d love it if you were willing to skim through some of my posts and offer some feedback, so if you ever do get a chance I’d love to hear your opinion/advice. Or even those of some of your readers.
    Thanks for encouraging randomness!

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    1. bottledworder Avatar

      Thanks. I’ll visit your blog soon.

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  38. ashokbhatia Avatar

    Yes, the everyday dilemmas bloggers face!
    You may like to check this out:
    http://ashokbhatia.wordpress.com/2014/01/23/why-become-a-slave-to-technology/

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  39. Geo Sans Avatar

    choices
    ~
    revolve around
    personal
    professional
    ~
    professional
    without
    personal becomes
    corporate
    boring
    ~
    personal
    without
    professional
    can
    have a naive charm
    but
    might not be
    a desired perception
    ~
    readers
    want
    articulate ideas
    with
    creativity
    ~
    thankfully
    there are millions of ways
    to interpret one’s
    craft

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    1. bottledworder Avatar

      Yes. Of course. Thanks for your poems.

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  40. John Hayden Avatar

    Good analysis of the blogger’s conundrum. Focus like a laser on one subject, or follow your muse from day to day? We receive so much pressure and advice to limit our blogs, to focus, stay on-topic. I just can’t seem to do it. I, for one, like your conclusion: “Embrace multiplicity.”

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